Майра Сулеева

It has turned out that may in groups of “Early development” in our centre was very rich on birthdays. We have discussed with parents and came to conclusion to arrange “Day of the Birthdays” for all our “may newborns”. It became interesting to ourselves, what is the holiday of birthday? The most people will answer that it is a day when person was born, when you celebrate it with close friends and relatives also receive a gifts. But seldom we ask question about the origin of the birthday. It appears, the tradition to celebrate birthday has arisen in Europe many centuries ago. During those old times was considered that malicious forces especially "become more active" in birthday of the person. For this reason, members of a family and close friends gathered under one roof to protect the birth…

What does mean “to love a child”? That means to accept him as who he is, even if he is a handicapped. Love them not for any personal qualities but in spite of everything, as our children love us. Why we love the ordinary children? Because they can eat well or put their toys on their place after the game, or get the excellent points at school? Suppose, everyone of you will answer “no”. And also there exist “the love without bounds”. The example of that kind of love can be the story which I will tell you. In our city lives a family which consists of 4 adult persons (mother, father, grandmother and grandfather) and 1 son-grandson. Child has already reached 2 years but to our surprise he still can’t eat by himself. The reason is the parents and grandparents love him so much that one of them i…

The key principles of bringing up the child in a family should be: respect, trust, safety and love. As we have noticed, young parents have a habit not to show a respect to their kids. It is needed to teach parents : to allow the child to differ from others, not to compare to contemporaries. Such approach will allow the child to realize the person, will give the chance to open, estimate and develop in him the special internal potential, never abuse him and not accuse him in anything. It is necessary to believe that your child doesn't have intention to do something bad. Also necessary concern his mistakes as the help to understand what is still unfamiliar for the kid in this world. It is necessary to know that children unconsciously make many psychological experiments. They wait a correct b…

Few of the kids who come to our center show readiness to communicate and learn right away. When Zhankoja just entered our center he was very bizarre and unsociable. Out of many kids who visit “Kenes” he stood out as very aggressive. Zhankoja wiped off everything from his way, knocked off toys, household stuff, and plates with food. The main cause for being aggressive was his inability to communicate with mates and adults, in other words absence of speech. It took a lot of effort in order to cure Zhanik of wrong behavioral habits. Gradually he adapted to the daily regime. Zhanik identified a group leader, Nurbek, and started imitating him. The teachers took this opportunity of kid’s choice and started forming necessary knowledge, skills and expertise through Nurbek. Through his observation…

It is hard to deal with the fact that a child was born to the family who is different in pace of development in separate functional constraints. Often in such cases mothers are offered to abandon their babies, to leave the baby in the maternity home. In my view this is absolutely improper position of the physicians. A child is not an object and not a personal parents’ project which is supposed to bring a diploma and demonstrate some other socially valuable results. A child is first of all a part of his parents, this is a little PERSON with his own inner world, worries, feelings and desires. His or her future success is determined by the conditions to which the child will be exposed to, and whether he or she will be living in a family. Only the mother can inspire the child with confidence…

During the years which Dinara spent with us she changed completely. She grew and started looking as a little Miss with good manners. She is always carrying female attributes with her – make up bag with lip gloss, hand crème, hair brush and a mirror. She thoroughly prepares before going out: brushes and makes her hair, puts on lip gloss and cleans her shoes. And all of this is being done to look fascinating. She also likes to pretend that she does not hear how others invite her to have a meal. After hearing invitation for several times, she asks “Is it for me?” and goes to the cafeteria laughing. This, one more time proves that she wants to stand out and be adored. Not that long ago Dinara was a spoiled child who refused to communicate with us. It was hard for us to imagine that she could…

Kolya has been waiting for a long time for me to write about him. He is very attentive and caring in regards to kids who are younger than him. He is independent: he is trusted to do some groceries. He knows daily schedule and manages to coordinate its realization. For instance, if kids have difficulties in getting lunch Kolya is there to remind about the plan. I will be honest, I have never heard so many personal compliments from one man as I hear from Kolya: “You are our queen”, “I admire you!”, “You are our pretty lady, you have to be carried!”, “Yes, boss I’m listening to you!” While a lot of our project participants of “Employment center” are performing work silently it is impossible in case with Kolya. No matter what he does, he comments everything which takes place around and feels…

Sooner or later a child enters a period in which the surrounding environment will change. Usually, it has to do with the fact that the child has grown and parents have to return to their jobs. There comes a question of how to organize a child – is it necessary to prepare him or her for the changed environment, is it vital to send him or her to kindergarten? Kindergarten – is in form a model of adult society. If you decided that your kid is ready for it then, first of all, you should consider how to help him or her to adapt to a completely new environment. For developing psychological stability of a child the adaptation period is extremely important because children under 3 can experience fear of strangers and new forms of communication. These fears are one of the causes for challenged ada…

Обучение детей с особыми образовательными потребностями, так же как и системы образования для обычных детей - это целостная система, состоящая из логически связанных звеньев: восприятие учебного материала; закрепление учебного материала; применение усвоенных знаний и умений. Восприятие* учебного материала. Началом познавательной деятельности детей с особыми образовательными потребностями является, насколько ребенок воспринимает предлагаемый материал. Восприятие ребенка тесно связано с представлениями, сформировавшимися в результате предшествовавших восприятий и мышлением. Восприятие материала нашими детьми несовершенно. Оно замедленно в связи с запаздыванием реакций ребенка на внешние раздражения. Не все то, что предъявляется детям для восприятия, отражается в их сознании. Одни стороны де…

Ключевыми принципами модели воспитания ребенка в семье должны быть: уважение, доверие, безопасность и безусловная Любовь. По нашим наблюдениям не в традициях молодых родителей проявлять уважение к своим малышам. Этому родителей нужно учить: позволять ребёнку отличаться от других, не сравнивать со сверстниками. Такой подход позволит ребенку осознать свою личность, даст возможность открыть, оценить и развить в себе свой особый внутренний потенциал; никогда не ругать малыша и не обвинять его в чем-либо. Надо верить в то, что у вашего ребёнка нет намерения делать что-то плохо. Надо относиться к его ошибкам как к подсказке о том, что ещё незнакомо малышу в этом мире. Надо знать, что дети неосознанно проводят много психологических экспериментов. Они ждут от вас правильного поведения. Если родит…