To win you have to stay in the game .... i am not really sure whose expresion it is, but i definetely liked it... and also i know that life is very very short, we have only 84 600 seconds in a day... and at the time we are going to the bed, the day is lost... the time lost is an opportunity lost... and our days are counted... no-one will be given any extention...
sometimes such kind of thoughts make me feel really motivated... i wake up early in the morning, running out of the bed, full of energy, open to new challenges, and ready to be the best... at these days, when i accomplish a lot of stuff during the day, i go to sleep with a fascinating feeling... i can be dead tired, but happy and enjoy myself... enjoy my life... and this feeling is the best one to have... w
hen you love what you do... this is happiness.. but sometimes, even the best motivational movies, books, or tapes, cannot make me move from the screen..... energy is low.. the same is the motivation... i do things i used to enjoy before, but they do not make me happy as before... it is some kind of stress... when u do not enjoy your life, yourself, or whatever else you loved before... and everyone knows, or at least noticed even once in their lifetime, that when you are at the highest of your mood, when you happy, all aspects of your life are very good - it could be relationships with others, study, work, social work, work out, or even your hobby...
it seems like we are sending some signals to others, that we are what we are, we are very happy, and we have a mind of the winner... there are a lot of books of positive psychology, trying to expain happiness, and joy, but still this field lacks scientific research... it is not proved... and happiness is still a secret... there are no drugs from the derpession... there are some tips... but all people are unique, and which works for one, does not necesserilly work for another person...
usually, most people try to find happiness outside... in some factors which surround them... they miss it with real happiness.... while secret is inside... only i know what is good for me... when i am ready to make decisions... who i want to be... and what i am now.... every person should question themselves - who i am? what makes me unique? what do i bring new to the room? ??
and i can tell from my own experience, when i start to do this, it makes me confident, and happy... thanks to this reflection about what i have accomprished... what i am proud about myself of... what makes me only one in whole universe... what i bring to my family, friends, uni, work, or whatever else... this helps me to realize the power of personality, that i can and moreover must bring something new to this world... that is the reason why my parents 21 years ago gave me a life... an opportunity to be part of this world... to bring something very special with my personality.. with what i am and ought to be....
and even if some people do not like me... or try to critique me... i know that i am the one who can judge myself... and being different is often challenging... that is the reasons, why today we have a lot of standards - of beauty, what you should be, what to read, what to listen, etc... this huge influence of modern culture, and media... makes people even think by the standard... they are not open to new ideas... to anything new... to positive changes... o
nly open-minded are becoming world leaders.... people usually do not like change... for most of my life i am being some kind of facilitator of change in the communities i am in.... but i know for sure... that gradually i and people who think like me... will change our society to be more open, to develop the best of human potential... we are all human beings... we are all unique... and need to bring something new to this universe.... we have only one chance...
