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10:44, 18 октября 2012

Is child behavior better or worse?

Child is very important for human being since Adam and Eve’s time. Children are the sense of our life. Actuality of this topic is very high. How is the behavior of children nowadays? Is it good or bad? Or is it better or worse? In today’s modern world there are a lot of opinions about children’s behavior. Someone says that children behavior became worse, if compare to the past few decades. Being more detailed, 70% of responders believe that children behavior is worse. On the other hand some opinions believe that children behavior is improving year after year. I agree that children behave even worse than they should have behaved. There are 3 main points why do I believe that children behavior is worse compared to the past few decades: negative effects of media (internet, video games and TV) to children, very busy parents, and schools which are based more on education rather than on moral studies.

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First of all, we live in the world where it is easy to have an access to the internet. Number of internet users among children has increased dramatically in the past 20 years. Due to the cheap access to the internet it is being used by young users frequently. Neither internet, video games nor TV have good effects to children behavior. And because of that a children behave abnormally. Beside of bad impact on children behavior, media also has negative impact on children’s health. Statistics show that children have become fat because of often using of internet. Internet and different video games don’t give any opportunity to children to do a sport or any activities. The worst problem is that children are not able to identify the difference between fact and fiction. They want to be as heroes from video games or movies, and children try to behave like their heroes. If a hero is bad and violent, child will behave worse. Today it is difficult to find children playing sport games or just playing outside. Most of the children stay at home and watch movies where people kill each other. Obviously child who watches this kind of movies will behave very violent and cruel. Killing people for him will be a common thing. Media has a great power of impact, particularly to children. Hence, we should keep our children away from negative impacts of media.

 

Secondly, as I mentioned above parents are very busy with their jobs nowadays. Instead of looking after their children and raise to be a good person, parents are more focused on how to earn more money for their children. They hire babysitters and go for work 6 days in a week. Unfortunately, sometimes babysitters spend much time with children rather than their biological parents do. Due to the very busy lifestyle, parents feel that they deprived of the family time. Then parents don’t understand children’s behavior. 54% of 500 parents think that they don’t have enough time to be with their children. Children behavior is getting worse, crime among children is rising. Raping, robbing, murdering became as a normal thing. This is quite dangerous for the future generation.

Last but not least, one of the most important elements in our life is school. School helps our children to be a competitive person. Unfortunately, most of the schools try to improve and enhance children’s education only. Schools are not focused on moral studies, which are also very important for children in order to be a good person and behave normally. As a very simple example, I can say about bad students’ behavior in US. Most of the teachers escape their jobs due to the bad behavior of students. 92% of teachers believe that children behavior became worse compared to the beginning of the course. It is because of that schools don’t care about moral studies. Moral studies are one of the ways to improve children behavior. Schools must teach both, morality and education at the same time.

In a nutshell, it is hard to say, but in fact children behavior is worse than it was several decades ago. Also it is difficult to say that these children are our strong future. Children not only behave badly, they neither refuse to study at all. How will they raise their own children? In spite of conflict of opinions about children behavior, I totally agree that children behave worse. There are 3 big reasons of that, impact of media, lack of parents’ time, and schools’ misstep. Undoubtedly, all mistakes can be improved if we take a notice what is discussed above. Negative impact of media should be stopped, parents must spend much time with their children, and schools should be focused on moral studies as well. Hope never dies; I hope our children will behave better soon.

 
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