"At that stage you are a star, you have your income, you have a great income, just no limit. There are a lot of very expensive ties, a sports car; you have a lot of free time activities. In the beginning there is no change, because there is enough money, everything is so exciting and you are even more a star, because it is also “your own money”. After one year and a half the money is more or less gone and the plans are not really like it was; you start to explain your friends that this weekend you can’t go with them. After the third time they will not call you anymore. Your member card of very expensive restaurants closing, shops are gone, you are starting to sell your sports car, you get fat, your friends losing you because you are of no interest anymore, you have no power…Lots of network is based on power – you can call someone… so all this friendship is gone."